We THOUGHT he was all better !! At least thats what the doctors told us.
Friday morning he woke up with a HUGE knot (the size of a candy bar in length) on the left side of his body and the scar from the surgery was bright red. We took him straight to the Doctors and ofcourse with the luck we have been having, our original surgeon was out of town so they told us again to go "straight t
o the emergency room".
Once we got to Sunrise Childrens Hospital a different general surgeon came in and found that (after several more tests) he had a deep tissue infection and he needed to be admitted to the hospital for 48 hours for IV antibiotics (they work faster)
. Since I am nursing him I got admitted with him.
After only 24 hours they saw that the treatment wasn't working and they decided to do ANOTHER surgery to "clean it out". So Sunday morning at 7am he had his 2nd surgery. When they got out of surgery they saw that the infection was so severe that they wanted him to stay admitted for 4 more days. To be honest at this point I was too scared to go home. When the cultures came back they found that he had gotten a STAPH infection from the first surgery. Something happened during the first surgery
to cause this.They said sometimes if something isn't properly sterile or if someone doesn't wear a mask etc. this can happen. We wont find out
exactly what caused it for a while.
I have to say that as a mother I was relived that it wasnt something I had done wrong at home by caring for him but that relief quickly turned to
anger as i realised that not only was it the hospitals fault but that we had been in the ER 2 times saying that he was sick after the initial surgery and just got sent home.
As a mother everytime they would come in and wake him up (every 2 hours to do vitals) or prick him for labs or redo his IV 10 times because they couldnt get it right, It was like adding fuel to a fire. I was getting more and more
upset that he was going through all of this because of someone elses carelessness. My husband keeps telling me its an honest mistake but I definetly need to work on my forgiveness because it was almost too much to bare.
I missed my girls terribly. I have never gone that long without being with them. As those of you that know me and often tease me about "never leaving them" can understand how hard it was for me. I did not want them coming to a childrens hospital for fear of them getting sick and for preventing them from seeing the true sadness in a hospital floor full of sick children.
We got sent home on Wednesday and slowly recooperating. He is still on antibotics and his wounds need extensive cleaning but hopefully in a few weeks he will be all better.
Again I want to thank all of you who really stepped up and showed our family how much you care. It is those of you who share a special place in my heart and I wont ever forget your service to us when we needed it the most.
Here are some pictures. I left out the really sad ones.
Hope my next post it a bit more uplifting.
THIS SUCKS!!!
Done with surgery and
already feeling better!!!
10 comments:
Johnny is such a trooper and I love what a happy baby he is right after surgery. I love you guys!
He is looking more like his sisters...especially Lina. It is all going to be great from here on out!!
Wow Emilie I am sorry you all had to go through all of that. My heart goes out to your family & little Johnny! I can only imagine how you must have felt. I would have been the same way, and Hartman would be the one telling me to calm down too:) Glad your all home now!
that is a really terrible and tragic series of events. Poor Johnny and poor you!
hi emilie, i don't know if you remember me, my maiden name was jessi perry and I went to Chaparral? I am a friend of Nikki (arnold) wolanzyk and Tera(maglione) Carranza. Anyway, I just found you through a friend's page. Your kids are SO cute. I'm so sorry for your recent troubles. Hope all is better now!
Emilie we will keep you guys in our prayers. I'm so sorry little Johnny and you have had to go through this. I hope he continues to do a lot better. We love you guys!
That is so sad!! I think I would be a little on the angry side by now too! I hope that all gets better soon. Let us know if there's anything that we can do for your family.
Oh, man. I can't imagine how hard this all must be for you guys. I'm so glad things are finally really on the up and up. It's amazing how darling and smiley your little guys is even under such miserable circumstances.
I am hurting for you! That is so sad! Poor little Johnny! I am glad he is doing better! Nicole told me he had surgery, but I did not realize how crazy it was!
I'm sorry your family had to go through such an ordeal. I'm just glad that everything turned out fine and Johnny is healthy once again. You guys are always in my prayers. Much love, The Smiths
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